changed router binary to opensrf_router to prevent opensrf_all from destroying

changed router binary to opensrf_router to prevent opensrf_all from destroying
some other process called router - (needs to be pid based eventually...)

gave the router a proc title (jsever is next)

updated opensrf_all and opensrf_ctl

git-svn-id: svn://svn.open-ils.org/OpenSRF/trunk@523 9efc2488-bf62-4759-914b-345cdb29e865