lp1846354 misc fixes

lp1846354 misc fixes

* better notes handling and schema catchup

  - better linking for actor.usr_note
  - schema changes for pristine install

* don't hide referenced deleted messages from staff
* don't exclude archived messages from unread Messages count in OPAC
* migrate unmatched public notes as deleted user messages
* don't use 'Penalty Note' as a message title

Signed-off-by: Jason Etheridge <jason@EquinoxInitiative.org>
Signed-off-by: Terran McCanna <tmccanna@georgialibraries.org>
Signed-off-by: Galen Charlton <gmc@equinoxinitiative.org>